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Tuesday, November 24, 2015

Joyful.

...I hadn't planned to post today. Y'all have been amazing in your support; my family has loved and appreciated every single comment. But I thought today would be ... simply too sad to share.

I've never been so happy to be proved wrong. The sunrise was clear and bright.

The service was standing room only, a fitting tribute to a young man who touched many lives and will be remembered for his gentle spirit and his smile... joyful.

Late this afternoon we gathered at my sister's. PJ would've enjoyed the party. The food was delicious. And there was wine & beer and the company was ... family.

I"m sure he would've had a ball entertaining his cousin Charlie.

and all of us.

Labels: grace

10 Comments:

Carole said...: Moments like that help up to see grace and hope in times of profound sadness. I'm glad you found the joy and I hope it stays with all of you in the days and weeks ahead.; Wednesday, 25 November, 2015
Bonny said...: I thought about your family many times yesterday. I used to think gathering afterwards was kind of awful, but as I get older I can see the benefits - you can cry with family and friends if you need to, share stories, decompress a bit, and share lots of hugs. And it never hurts to have a sweet child like Charlie around. Sending thoughts for peace and comfort in the coming days.; Wednesday, 25 November, 2015
margene said...: You have been in my thoughts and in my heart. May you continue to find peace in your family gatherings, in the beautiful of nature, and in the smile of sweet Charlie. xox; Wednesday, 25 November, 2015
Nancy said...: Tears and sadness, laughter and joy — hand in hand. Thank goodness for Charlie. You and your family have been in my thoughts. Hugs.; Wednesday, 25 November, 2015
Patty said...: I've been thinking about you my friend. Here's hoping this long weekend brings continued strength and love among your family. xo; Wednesday, 25 November, 2015
Anne said...: Mary -
I am so very sorry. I hope your loving family and your happy memories of times with PJ will sustain you all through this very difficult time. Holding you all in the Light.; Wednesday, 25 November, 2015
Vicki Knitorious said...: I'm sure Charlie had a ball entertaining all of you! Love to you all as you gather and celebrate.; Wednesday, 25 November, 2015
Jersey Shore Deb said...: Mary, even though we have never met, I feel as if I know you and your family and I am so very sorry for your loss. I'm glad you are finding strength in those around you, particularly adorable Charlie. May you continue to find that strength and begin to heal.
Deb; Wednesday, 25 November, 2015
Lydia said...: PJ would have had it no other way; Thursday, 26 November, 2015
Kym said...: I have been thinking of you and your family all week. Family bonds are incredibly powerful -- and pull us through even the very darkest times. Sending healing wishes and much love. XO; Friday, 27 November, 2015

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